>>85454 (OP)Both foids i was with (one situationship and the other one that i'm still dating) kind of just randomly gravitated towards me and asked me out and confessed to me first. Tbh idk what i did to get that lucky (keeanu reeves called me breathtaking or something) , but i'd say that about 2 or maybe 3 dates is enough to confess to a foid. But the earlier you try, the better.