/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

You can reduce the effects but never get rid of it. Only treating the symptoms and not the cause.

What sucks is that as neurodivergents we have to learn basic things that everyone else just has as a default. Then even if youve learnt it, it feels unnatural while its the same as breathing for the normies.

Even the cases which some delusional people push to say its a heckin superpower o algo show the flaws. Nikola Tesla was definitely a great man, but he lived alone and only had pigeons as friends. His more neurotypical equivalent in Edison was actually able to market his inventions and be successful in life. All the other cases of genius spergs are similar. Intellectually capable, but complete failures in terms of regular life achievements.

I disagree on wanting the jewpills doe. If all they did was make you a normie that would be fine. But normally they end up fucking up your brain up permanently.

>>103846
>Intellectually capable, but complete failures in terms of regular life achievements.
I honestly feel like this is solvable.

Like if you ask yourself, "Why do autistic people tend to have such difficult and awkward lives? And why are most of them failures?" it's because autistic brains are basically just brains that could not effectively be conditioned by society into fitting the mold that society wants its citizens to have.

When I say "brainwashing" I don't mean like ohh they are trying to create some ZOG slaves (even doe they are sometimes). It's more like, the social conditioning is needed in many respects because you live in a world where 95%+ of people are conditioned to be a certain way, so if you're part of the <5% that are different, your life is just gonna be 10x harder and you'll never get to enjoy friendships, sex, career success, socializing etc. in the way that everyone else does. It won't work out

But to say that autists are not brainwashed by society, is not equal to saying that autists get the "real" version of reality. What happens is that autists get a scattered & confusing version of reality where they're influenced by a lot of random things. Some of those things will be extremely giga and put you above the goycattle (so you get guys like Tesla), but more often, you will just get random influences that aren't bad on paper, but they are bad in practice because our world is so radically different from what the autistic person is trained to desire, that the autistic person is just left existing in a world that can never satisfy them. Unless they can like hypnotize themselves to rewire how their brain works

>>103851
I agree with what you have to say about the influences. It also depends on whether or not the sperg takes action, and in what way.

Personally im an ADHDtard and theres been one case where i actually did something with it. I got pretty 'tistic about tanks in my teens, but i ended up spurring this into an interest in engineering, and now i work as an engineer. So its possible to use some parts for your own good. But for every couple spergs which can use it for something, theres a whole lot more who just collect facts about trains or planes or something, or spend all their money on warhammer figurines. And then some of them will be groomed into trooning out and sperging out about it.

The social parts arent impossible to make work but its just substantially harder. The only way out is to be a giga and completely ignore what others think of you to maximise exposure to others so you are more likely to find people from that 5%. This is hard since its common for spergs to be introverted or antisocial, either directly from being autistic, or indirectly because they got heavily bullied at school and have a distrust for people.

>>103852
Yeah I am still struggling too. Luckily I'm not suicidal or medicated like many autists, but even if I just sit down and think, "How can I possibly have a good love life?" "How can I possibly have a normal social life?" my mind just draws a blank. It's not that I'm being defeatist or giving up. It's that I can't even imagine a position in society I could have that would solve all of these things. Like my ways of bonding with people, my sexual fetishes, my style of communication, my interests, it's all too niche and alienating to people.

Maybe this sounds crazy but I think the best bet for people like us is AI. Maybe AI will just get so good over the next couple years that it can simulate the perfect partners for us. Yeah I know it sounds dumb but realistically it's the best chance we've got. Anyone who says we should just reintegrate into society has no idea how impossible of a task that is for guys like us

>>103836 (OP)
when yuo doom, go to hgoon

>>103860
This is the issue with being high func. The low functioning ones either arent aware of it, or they actually found another tard to be with since they both went to tard school, and neither of them have the capability to leave the other.

As a high functioning sperg you are intelligent to the point that you know what you want, and also aware that you have no idea how to get it. Ive watched all the "advice" for dating and none of it seems like it would work. Its rare enough for me to find someone who fits my criteria, im way too picky when it comes to personality and interests. Ive lived enough of my life in a world where nobody cares about the things i do and i cant talk about it with anyone, id like if a girlfriend was actually able to "nerd out" with me. Then if i were to find someone who i would actually date, i dont know how id ask them out. Im practically just praying that a girl will approach me first.

The only hope i have is that eventually i will find a sperg girl to be with. But honestly i havent met any so far, theyre a unicorn that only exists in my imagination. Maybe AI will be what gives us something, ive watched some of those ai greentext things that slop channels churn out on jewtube and theyre not too bad other than the shit writing style. I think id always still feel hollow knowing i have to be with an AI as i have no chance with another human.

>>103908
>Im practically just praying that a girl will approach me first.
I had a girl approach me first. Somehow she (a biological woman) managed to play the active role and push the relationship forward at each stage, from the start all the way up to the breakup. It was genuinely a fun and exciting 6 months.

But actually, the main thing I learned from this "relationship" is that I just don't do the long-term thing at all. That was why she broke up with me. There was a slow build-up, then an intense 2-3 months of passion, and then finally once things settled down and became routine, I mostly stopped caring. Don't get me wrong, it was a clear improvement from being single – but even if I do have a girl, my mind is always going to be autistically focused on some bizarre special interest that me and 5 other people care about, which is going to alienate a woman. Now when you're in that lovey-dovey phase it's very easy and satisfying to give all your attention to a woman, because it's interesting and it feels important, but once you move past that lovey-dovey phase, it really becomes a burden. It just stops hitting your brain the same way. This is why men say that clingy girls are bad. So I'm not in a hurry to have another relationship, because it would simply be a repeat of that cycle.

I think love is overrated. Not everyone needs it. Of course, some men DO, and they need the idea of love to get them out of bed each morning. But love is honestly just one of countless ways to make your life meaningful. The idea that love is the #1 emotion that brings meaning to life is a very recent idea that became popular with the rise of Disney movies a century ago, and before that love was just some dumb thing that teenagers obsessed over and grew out of by the time they hit 25. All poets back then used to be like 20 years old because it was considered bizarre and dumb to care about love as an adult. My relationship was fun but it doesn't come close to the best experiences I had so far in the 2020's.

If you're a virgin, you should find some way to experience love ASAP. That way you can learn whether or not you should chase it. You might not even need it

>>103956
Yeah, i guess this explains it. Im 18 and so far a khhv. Id like to be able to experience a longer term relationship at least once in my life, doebeit i feel like id know what to do IN a relationship, just not how to acquire one to begin with.

Im considering getting dating apps honestly. Not even just to date, but also because ive seen some mates at work fucking around on it sending the riskiest messages possible and generally using it for entertainment. Might be worth it to shit around on and maybe get laid along the way.

There is. It's called the raw primal diet.

>>103958
dating apps are bleak for males. check your smv first

>>103963
I'm over 180cm tall and white, still young so I don't have a fucked hairline either. Not really fat but don't have muscle to show. I've been told by someone (non-family) that I have a good smile but I'm not photogenic or anything. My face is ok I guess, no disturbingly bad feature and my jaw is good, but everything else is mid.

Is it worth it? At the very least there could be some gegs to be had by calling a spade a spade and calling all the ugly bitches ugly and the whores whores when I'm drunk.

>>103979
worth a shot

>>103836 (OP)
>was
ESL. Should be "were."