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>>103365 (OP)stop gooning and it'll help your confidence
learn to fight and use that to express your inner bvll
never give in and use
(((meds))) â„–103579[Quote]
>>103369I always wanted to nevergoon but I keep fucking up
I think the key to not giving into the urge is to simply have something else to do, so I'll try to just stay occupied whenever even the slightest thought or impulse arises
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>>103579yes this is a good mindset and way to avoid it, i also just try to think of how shitty i feel after it and that theres no point
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nothing is guaranteed and everything can fall apart at any moment thats a fact a life stupid
the difference between you and a succesful person is that the succesful person knows they might fail and they try anyway
its up to you to make your dreams reality, to enforce your wills and desire on the world and do so despite the risks and fears.
you need to remind yourself that whatever misery might come from trying and failing to achieve your dreams is still infinitely better than the misery of knowing your never tried in the first place.
better yet you might find the struggle itself to be an enjoyable experience, lots of people do