/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

make sure she actually likes you back

Do you actually know her somewhat? Doesnt have to be years of friendship but would you at least be able to consider her a friend and know basics like what shes interested in?

If you dont its not really worth it. Chances are you will get rejected since she doesnt know you.

If you are friendly with each other then try to gauge interest through body language. Does she laugh at any jokes you might make. Is she actually willing to spend time with you, or does she just talk to you to spend the time?

If you think there's some interest, shoot your shot. If you get rejected dont deal with friendzone bullshit, you dont have to be rude but don't bother spending time with her. Dont waste your time, start to keep an eye out for the next potential person

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>>102527 (OP)
Being afraid of rejection is for niggers and faggots

>>102531
>friends for years
>friendly
>normalfag but some opinions when it comes to sports
am i good?

>>102536
>>friends for years
>am i good?
no
you're in the friend zone

>>102536
did she drop any hints she could be interested in you, that would fit your predisposition/ degree of self awarness, that can be read not as banter/playfulness?

>>102527 (OP)
Theres no way to stop being nervous you just have to do it

>>102536
Im the guy you replied to
Ideally you want to only be friends for a couple months before asking them out, not years. Then you are mentally "the guy who i get along with" and not "my close friend of 5 years". For some it can even be surprising if you ask them out after a while.

If youve been getting along for so long though, just ask her out. For the first date choose something where either of you can make an excuse and leave it is clear it wont work. So something like a cafe or park walk or something rather than a restaurant dinner date or cinema

just dont ezpz

Just throw yourself in

Just accept that she may not like you back ask whilst accepting whatever she says dont hope for anything