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>>3301635 (OP)Wompas provide comfort and snca cope o algo. men provide advice and solution
something i noticed
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Oops haha
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I dont have this problem since i stare at foids till they are scared of me
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>>3301644Multiple women have told me I radiate this energy of safe protective masculinity and how rare and special it is. And they will just tell me about almost killing themselves like instantly upon meeting them. This girl I've gone on a few dates with has spent almost every minute of it telling me about her. She is almost certainly interested in dating me but I don't want some fucking rebound no matter how ridiculously attractive she is
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Like what the fuck? Can I PLEASE get a normal woman for once god. I mean they are hot as hell but I don't care I want a wife not some fucking bimbo
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>>3301667Scream racial slurs at her
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>>3301679Believe me at this point it feels like it's not worth it for me. I can't do this anymore I can't fucking deal with this. None of the stable women are the ones I attract I get like two types of women, the BPD whores and trad women who despite never letting you know expect you to ask them
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I have a third date with this woman and if she doesn't realise she's been using me as a sponge I'm done with her
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>>3301689>waahhh wahhhhh mentally ill wompas give me attention give me pityWhat an odd thread to make.
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>>3301697I don't want mentally ill women and believe me you do not either. They are literally not worth the effort
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>>3301711that is not my point, and i agree
but it is hardly tragic.
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>>3301635 (OP)Have you ever told them to just stfu bro ?
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>>3301729Yes but then thy get so caught up in the vent they don't realize
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>>3301736Have you ever considered that these women might be losers ?
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>>3301722I mean fair I guess I'm just venting myself I suppose. Just not in the greatest mood
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>instead of solving my problems, let me talk about how much it's bothering me and not do anything about it
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>>3301740I mean yeah but I feel like they are the only women attracted to me
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>>3301744They're rubbing off on you KEK
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>>3301749Well yeah proximity to insanity makes one crazy
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>>3301748Well then try to tell them to stfu so you don't have to endure that
And if they don't wanna hang out then they never liked you to begin with
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I never had to experience this because I don't try yo find women
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>>3301744Well then, you have become them
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Just dont let narcissists use you as free therapy, its gay and cucked to all hell
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>>3301751Manic foids are a literal nigger to deal with, start spiking her drinks with lithium and get back to me with results
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>>3301767People who do this are predatory and will go to hell if they don't fix their shit
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>>3301767I don't think this woman is a narcissist. In all honesty it feels like she got hit with like the four horsemen of the apocalypse. Her dad (single father) has cancer. Ex cheated on her, friends abandoned her and the last remaining friend takes advantage of her and forces her to do stuff for him (homosexual)
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All in the span of 3 months btw
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>>3301785The narcissist gets abused by another narcissist and then uses you to cope with that. Ones grief is anothers pleasure
anyone venting to nophonos is a narcissist simple as.
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>>3301785I hate to be that guy but people who attract this kind of negativity have to be this negative to begin with
Her ex cheating, friends leaving, and remaining friend being an asshole is very likely her fault
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>>3301791Maybe. Would be an absolute tragedy worth of the Greeks for this woman to realize she is doing the exact shit she complains about.
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>>3301791The universe puts you with what it decides you're worth being around
This girl is a big lesson for op
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>>3301793From what people tell me I have a very safe energy which acts like a magnet to women who are highly receptive to it, generally from broken homes or abusive familes or people who have BPD and such
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>>3301799Knowing this, why do you even entertain her?
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>>3301809I want to try to make her realise it because it would be cathartic
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>>3301808Apparently also good women but the issue is conservative type women don't send clear signals
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>>3301808>safe energyDo they mean this in the 'i feel protected when im with you' way or the 'i know you won't make fun of me or criticize me or question me ever' way?
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>>3301825Because if it's the latter then you gotta stop hanging around with these women bro
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>>3301799And then you do it
the cycle continues on
Sucking the metaphysical energy that is pity from whoever is sorry enough to listen
>>3301801Dis
>>3301825if its snca venting and nothing else, its the latter, the cuck archetype
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>>3301825The protected kind apparently. "Refined protective masculine" is what my male BPD friend said
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>>3301846He's just more or less extremely friendly but also erratic, it's odd but he's mostly fine
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>>3301841The only male BPD i know goes onto /qa/ to blog their fantasy headcanons and whenever they drink coffee
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>>3301841I just hope for your sake he's being honest
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>>3301855idk if somephono who labels themselves that would be a good friend IMO.
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>>3301865I've heard it from multiple unrelated people so I'm inclined to believe them.
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One of the reasons he really likes me is apparently because I give off very "fatherly" energy
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>>3301866He ghosted me for 3 months for no reason so yeah not really a good friend
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>>3301892the BPD femcuck label is fair then. ghosting is for foids o algo
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Fuck these people man get me out of here. HITLER!! Send me to Ancient Africa so I can Kill browns
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>>3301873Are these people the same mentally ill people you're concerned about?
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>>3301921No I've heard it from normal people as well. People who are very receptive to the "energy" people give off generally really like me. Just like how Cops tend to smile at me
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I always get super weirded out when people compliment me for any reason. Especially when it's out of context or I feel they're trying to flatter me.
No man compliments another man out of context unless he's:
1) gay
2) wants something from you
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>>3301910you could be dying in the trenches but instead you play around with Harlots and Whores… many such cases.
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>>3301907I say BPD because he literally told me he has it
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>>3301929How well do you know yourself?
Do you feel inclined to agree with them because everyone is saying it or are you actually the type of person to act like this?
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>>3301943i wasnt saying it was YOUR label dough
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>>3301940Frankly I would prefer it. I was created to fight and have 12 children but all these retarded cattle want to do is talk about their fucking feelings to me about how heckin sad they are and simultaneously completely treat me as some fucking diary
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>>3301953>treating /pol/ as your diary instead Son…
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>>3301945I'm relatively inclined to believe them. I am a pretty protective person and I have strong things I value. Once something becomes a belief of mine it becomes a part of me. Maybe they glaze me a bit too much but othe then that yeah
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>>3301635 (OP)don't interact with foids who want to constantly vent or talk to people. that bitch is probably like many women who literally just talk to men to get their attention and waste their time. they are a type of very sociopathic people
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>>3301962More respectful than telling the guy you just met how you got molested by your meth addicted sister (true story btw)
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>>3301972True there are women like this but now I'm going to see if she realized how much she's down this. She's extremely neurotic so she must have some idea
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>>3301973what you need to do is subvert their expectations if you want it to stop. simply say "I dont give a fuck"
it is jarring so they will stop
>but its le meantraumadumping is incredibly rude
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>>3301982Is trauma dumping rude?
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>>3301988Very
>Why are you putting so much emotional load on me i met you last week â„–3301993[Quote]
>I'm not your fucking therapist stfu
And then she won't do it again
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>>3301988maybe they dont have manners in america or whatever, but anywhere else it is very rude
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>>3301991Honestly I thought it was kind of Normal for people to do. I am generally pretty reserved but that's how most people interact with me
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Am I that desensitised to this?
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>>3301998Bro I don't think I've ever let anyone talk to me about their issues like this
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>>3302001Sorry bud you were cucked and emotionally-raped as a rebound play-thing
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>>3302001Actually, I remember talking to girls in high school and everytime they'd rant to me about something I'd just tell them how to fix their shit and they wouldn't listen to me so I'd just tell them to fuck off instead
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>>3302010No like literally everyone does this to me. Not just women but men too. I literally talked to a guy at a gas station and he started telling me about how his father killed his mother in front of him
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>>3302017Are you okay with this? Does it not bother you that people do this with you?
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>>3302015because they are seeking pity and attention and consolement and whatever, not advice
if wompas were coming to OP for actual advice or help, it would be entirely different
>>3302017The narcissists sense you are a cuck and farm some energy from you
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>>3302010No I could have sex with this woman if I wanted to. She has 100% been treating this like a date
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gay sex inside me
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>>3302025Women are like this now though
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>>3302021I'm obsessed with physiogomy and apparently the reason why people do this is because the "halo effect" of my face makes traumatised people really trust me
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>>3302028Dude I shit myself for a second I thought someone found my tripcode
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>>3302023Maybe I am lmao honestly this is always how people have acted around me so I have no idea how rude it is
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>>3302036Become a therapist or something
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>>3302039oh lorddd imagine the MONEY
private practice of course.
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>>3302039No I'd rather be like a spy or something
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>>3302049Potentially more profitable
But If i was a heckin evil terrorist cel or something and a literal angel started working with me I'd suspect the worst
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God man no one has ever told me it's rude to trauma dump on people
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>>3302061Sharty social skill lessons
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>>3302061I can't deal with peoples shit, It drives me crazy listening to someone talk about some easily solvable issue they have in their life
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>>3302055I mean maybe. The upside to this is I know ALOT about how people think so I know a lot about how people think. Also no one ever thinks they are the bad guy
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>>3302063I've never done it but people do it to me all the time
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>>3302069if they wanted to fix it they would
its all just mental circlejerking
its the parasitic draining of metaphysical energy TRUST ME BRO.
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>>3302074I don't wanna put the idea in your head that confiding in someone is a bad thing. This is usually a sign of a healthy relationship
But dumping some fucked up shit onto people isn't cool bro
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>>3302084I blame society
No one would be like this if 'mental illness' wasn't so forced
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>>3302087Yeah I always thought it was a sign of trust but looking back nobody ever asks me questions about myself
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>>3302096oooooooooooooooooooooof
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>>3302069This same BPD guy is literally sleeping in the bed of a girl he likes, cuddling with her, going on date with her and won't ask her out bc he's too scared
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>>3302096An easy way to determine who actually likes you moving forward would be to stop answering people who just want something from you, and stop texting first for a bit
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Like dude you're LITERALLY in the bed. You are like 90% here all you have to say is "want to have sex?" Fucking dumbass
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>>3302111stop ranting he's probably had sex but won't say anything
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>>3302110I feel like I would have no one then. Everyone only wants something from me
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>>3302118No dude he hasn't. He would tell me. He's genuinely scared of asking her bc they had an arrangement to do this sort of thing without having sex
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>>3302104Commitment issues maybe??
I was friends with a serious sex addict. He had a gf but cheated on here bidaily
He broke up with her and didn't get into a relation ship for years after, but hed still sleep around.
Even having committed 'sleeping buddies' and they'd go on dates and hang out all the time, but he'd never seal the deal
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>>3302122Stop giving to these parasites. They only exist to suck the life out of you
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>>3302131Yeah but I can't find ANY OTHER decent people. Just fucking parasites
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God dude what do I fucking do
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>>3302146I broke off communication from all my old friends all at once.
I just stopped talking to them. None of them tried that hard to contact me after, which hurt of course but I didn't mind.
It took me maybe 2 years to find new people? In that time I've become a much better person since I had all the time in the world to work on myself.
Maybe you need this
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You won't find new people unless you yourself are a new person :)
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>>3302155do dis or become a volcel wise monk
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>>3302168This is also an option kek
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>>3302158Thing is I'm not a bad person I don't think. I for the life of me can't figure out what's causing this
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>>3302168Already am half of this
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>>3302172You are who you hang around with, you've probably picked up alot of traits from these people without realising. Thats why you have to go away for a while to become someone new, to become yourself.
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>>3302172There is more hope for the fool than for a man wise in his own eyes.
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>>3302146Keep trying until you find it
It requires countless attempts
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>>3302172Your intentions are pure, but you're too generous with who you dedicate your energy too
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>>3302175I'm also in the most liberal city in the west coast outside of The Twin cities and an extremely liberal school so yeah
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>>3302196Even better
Now you have to be alone for a while
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You won't feel that lonely once you realize how much unnecessary shit you had to deal with previously
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>>3302196Being around mentally ill narcissists is kind of a given here. God I feel so alone
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>>3302216I've spent most of my life alone my friend. I know exactly how it feels. I just want to be happy. I want to love
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>>3302219Now that you know what's happening, I'm sure you will make an informed decision, even if you don't like what you have to do
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ABANDON THREAD HES FUCKING DOING THE SAME THING ITS OVER ABANDON THREAD
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>>3302233AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Alright alright thread over
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>>3302229Yeah these bitches fucked you up bro no one cares about how you feel
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Never forget that
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>>3302243Nah believe me I haven't forgotten