>>2544632 (OP)A MILF fetish is just a desire to play the submissive role in a relationship. A milf is a mommy you can have sex with. This is rarely an ordeal a milf wants, however. Many MILFs still want you to be the shoulder she can cry on, not the other way around. Funnily enough, you're more likely to find the dynamic you're looking for if you expand the scope to include your age.