>>3728210that problem you listed when taking in account the adoption of a black child shouldn't even be in the top 10.
If you adopt a child of your same race the falsehood of you being the biological parent flows better and it isn't until the early adulthood when you can break the news to them.
With a different raced child you'll have to tell him at age 10, it will 100% be brought up by teachers, classmates, people at the park, and then there are the teenage years, the hell you'll go through is unspeakable.
Your child posting on shartypol will be your 112th issue you'll have to deal with