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yes im brown! , but i just had this convo with some American and he told me how romance is dead in the west , and he felt some sense of humanity and since when he went with a bunch of persians to a river where they began singing romance songs etc , in my opinion(snca) it is very dead and super misunderstood in the west how relationships work , most of people trying to be a hit and run kind of shit
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>>3340771I think people just try to hard to not try and it makes them look retarded. No, you don't need hot tips from Indian looksmaxxer VISSHnuBVLL to get women, and no you do need to have some game, but the best you can be is sincere and care about the other person genuinely
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>>3340784Just genuinely try to get to know someone and work with them on their level and a lot of women (or at least the kinds a relationship would actually be worth having with) will see that and possibly consider you. It's not easy and I'm sure it's harder from person to person but by no means impossible
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>>3340784they think they will get pussy from the first shot , thinking theyre s1mple or some shit
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>>3340800You see I don't even want that I want a woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I actually am extremely reserved about sex personally and I probably would hold off having it even if I could get it from someone in a relationship, I've turned down hookups because I decided I don't do that. People really are just retarded
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>>3340784haven't got in relationships yet cause i wont put effort in such shit yet , but soo far i dont have it badly with women irl its kinda okay otherwise i can hold conversations with them for hours straight been called a good listener more than i love you(which never happens and doesnt concern me)
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>>3340807i agree with you , you can spend it alone up to you , but in the end of the day you go to sleep lay on bed half naked or whatever and think "wouldnt it be nice if i had someone" its not a need but treat it like a nice dlc for example phantom liberty in cyberpunk
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>>3340808I tend to be a good listener as well but really it's about being what the woman needs you to be. If she needs an anchor than I can be that. If she needs a sage then I can do that. If she needs a strong male figure I can do that as well. Also so many people are utterly incapable of planning anything or being scared of rejection, like I get it doesn't feel good but it isn't that hard
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>>3340812>treat pursuing romance like a dlc in my favourite vidya or something Ngl this is a goy ass thing to say but I do agree that people should treat it as a secondary pursuit in life behind whatever your focusing on
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>>3340813dude rejection part is mad , sure hesitation and feeling shy are very normal especially for first timers , but c'mon you live once i dont think you would like to miss out on something because of rejection , and you shouldn't get depressed if you keep getting rejected , jus try
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>>3340814geg , but yeah life can be completed with it (as in die live order)
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>>3340815I also just think a lot of guys are incapable of taking initiative in the ordeal and expect to be on equal footing with deciding what they want to do, like no women want you to plan everything but they want to enjoy it as well. If you can just do that you'll be twice as successful
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>>3340837Like no. Women want you to plan everything*
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have you tried starting a gay relationship?
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>>3340849Well yeah some plans are stupid. But generally women want to see that you are capable. A man demonstrating capability is like porn for women. Men are predominantly attracted to visual appearance (usually indication of fertility) and women are attracted emotionally predominantly to a man's personality (capable charismatic men generally were more powerful and therefore better at reproduction, while looks could often indicate fertility and capability genuine personality traits are better predictors)
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Of course most women won't date a guy who is hideous they Arent physically attracted to, looks get you in the door and, maybe if the woman is a whore into bed for a while but if she sees your kind of a deadbeat loser later she won't be sticking around
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>>3340882many men i know want to find the perfect woman that cares and almost worships them , yet they had their way with at least 3 whores and they were so into it i dont want to start naming what they fucked(ethnicwise) , and i got no idea why a woman would whore herself like that for free , not like its anygood payed
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>>3340888Most men deserve the whores they end up marrying. In their case I advise not interfering
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>>3340961wouldnt call them whores..