>>13941568 (OP)>Pride month or parades (pointless)Growing up, we had a very close family friend on my dad's side who was Balkan immigrant in his 50s. However for as long as I knew him, I only learned that he was gay last year when my uncle dropped it randomly in a conversation. It just really shocked me because he doesn't have anything that could imply he's gay (fruity clothes, rainbow-patterned stuff, etc) nor does he possess any mannerisms or characteristics associated with gay people. If anything, I would've expected him to hate gay people.